Bathing Suit shopping. In other words HELP!!!!!!!!!

I briefly mentioned that I needed to do the most fun thing in the world- post baby bathing suit shopping. I did wear a bathing suit last summer but it was for Jonah's swimming lessons and I certainly wasn't hanging out on a beach. The last time I went shopping for a new suit was in 2007, right before my wedding, and I was 15 lbs lighter than I am now. I went last night and honestly it wasn't the worst thing. I went into the dressing room smiling feeling positive and I guess the fake reenforcement worked, at least in keeping my mood up. I walked away with an idea of what I want. Everything was either too short on me or lacking in support. I love being tall but I can't stand having a long torso. Remember when those ribbed tanks from the Gap & Old Navy came in a longer length? They were just hitting my waistband. When I was pregnant I couldn't use maternity tanks because they were still short and just ended up using tank dresses from H&M (as a top).

Anyway, back to swimsuits. I tried on this one:

It's by La Blanca and I really liked the overall fit and how it disguised my belly but for $93 just for the top I couldn't justify it, especially since it didn't support me on top too well and was a tad too short.

I loved how the bottoms fit and the ruching on the top.

Then I tried this one by Jantzen because I loved how it looked online. In person it was incredibly short and if I yanked it up any higher I would have given myself the most unpleasant wedgie! Wait, wouldn't any wedgie be unpleasant. Moving along...

So now I'm back online looking for something that will give me the support I need on top and something that isn't too incredibly boring. I think it's inevitable that I need a tankini because one piece suits will probably always be too short on me.

I saw this one from Land's End but thought the boobie cups looked weird and wished for something around the midsection. I also read that it runs a bit short.

And then I came across this other one from Land's End but they only have it in black. I don't mind black but I am just SO pale.

Can anyone help?!!! Anyone have a tankini that they LOVE? Or a one-piece that doesn't cut off circulation at the legs?